What you are going through
If you are visiting my website it is probably because you are involved in some kind of conflict and you don't know what to do at this point. Something has to change but you don't know all of what that is. You can continue to search for answers on the outside or you can consider this: There is more than one answer and the answers have not presented themselves yet because the ingredients for a full-blown solution are not yet available. Does that sound too easy? Let me help you. Resolving conflict is an under-appreciated art form until you have been there in that place of conflict, feeling stuck, and believing that your problems are insurmountable. Then someone or something comes along that is able to create an opening, some movement for you, and that movement actually reveals a series of solutions that you can live with so that the end of the conflict is now part of your new vision. What a relief!